Today's prompt: Introduce us to 5 blogs you read on the regular, and tell us why!

       Like I have said before, I have been out of the blogging world for about two years. There was a time where I would spend a good chunk of time reading these beautiful blogs, everyday. While I don't read them nearly as often as I used to, I still check-in to get caught up on these ladies lives (plus, I follow all of them on Instagram). They all lead different lives and have different talents and passions, but there is one binding theme through each of their blogs.... they love Jesus. What a wonderful platform they have with their blog and writing! I pray that mine too, will stand as a testament to Jesus love, grace, and forgiveness as each one of theirs does. 


WHATEVER - Meg is a Midwest girl, just like me! I like that about her. She is incredibly creative and has a passion for color. She has converted her gorgeous old home into a craft house, where she now hosts craft weekends. I am totally on the list for a craft weekend..... fingers crossed! She is an incredible mother and wife and is very real about her daily life. I think it is beautiful to see real moms sharing their joy and struggles with us. I love her!

UNDER THE SYCAMORE- You want to read a beautiful adoption story? Go check out Ashley's blog and read about the adoption of their beautiful daughter from China. I found her blog right when their sweet girl was coming home and immediately went back through her posts to read the whole story. I laughed, I cried, and I rejoiced as I read through her story. Beautiful! She is also incredibly creative and has a true talent in photography. She inspires me in so many ways.

SIMPLY SADIE JANE- This girl has an awesome weight loss story. Through clean eating and crossfit, she was able to lose a ton of weight. She is pure muscle and challenges me so much to become HEALTHY and STRONG. I have done her six week, at home, crossfit challenge multiple times and always love how toned I become. Check her out if you are looking to add a little fitness to your life.

ICING ON THE CAKE- This is my BFF, Heather. We have been friends since we were precious little 3rd graders. Her blog makes me laugh out loud in all it's wonderful quirkiness. Heather is real and speaks from her heart, but she is also studying to be a family therapist and brings a lot of her great knowledge into her posts. Check her out!

FULLY IN LOVE- Marianne was my rommie my first year in Kenya. She has a heart of GOLD! God is doing incredible things in and through this girl. I am so thankful for her friendship and I learn so many things from her. She will speak truth into your life!

Happy Reading!

SEVENTEEN: Blog Vlog

Today's prompt: Be brave! Make a vlog!

Well, this has been quite the adventure, I must say! Putting myself in front of a camera alone, is quite a stretch for me, but I wanted to take the challenge. I was hoping it was going to be easy breezy, but it was NOT.AT.ALL. My phone was being difficult and so trying to film this thing was a challenge in and of itself (as you will see) and then trying to post the video..... Well, let's just say it took an hour. Alas, it is UP! Praise Jesus! 

SIXTEEN: Ebeth Revealed

Today's prompt: "Most people don't know this but..."

       I like to think I am pretty much an open book when it comes to my life. I have vowed to be as authentic as possible, but I also have recognized that there are some things that need and should be kept personal. That being said, I will try to think of some things that aren't blatantly obvious to those who know me well. 
  

                                                                     ...... I hate washing dishes. I            

                                                                     mean, I don't even like taking 

                                                                     the dishes out of the sink and

                                                                     placing it in the dishwasher (where 

                                                                     all the actual washing is done).
                                                                     I have lovingly given that job to

                                                                     my hubby. 

                                                                    .
                                                                    ..... I fervently believe that I was
                                                                    born in the wrong decade. From 
                                                                    where I am standing, the 50's seem
                                                                    like a much better fit. I love the old
                                                                    fashion traditions, and simplicity of
                                                                    it all. 
                                                                    
                                                                    ...... I looooove peanut butter. I eat at
                                                                    LEAST two tablespoons a day. Crunchy pb,
                                                                    thank you very much!
                                                                    
                                                                    ...... I started running at a very young age. I 
                                                                    think I was probably eight when I started 
                                                                    running with my Dad. Sadly, I have always been
                                                                    terribly slow. No matter how hard I train, I 
                                                                    always end up at the back of the pack. 
                                                                    
                                                                    ...... I was born in Seattle, WA but I have never
                                                                    been back since. It's on my bucket list (I don't 
                                                                    actually have a bucket list).

                                                                    

                                                                    ...... I become severely hostile when I am pregnant.

                                                                         My husband called me a "viper" through both of my                                                                                  pregnancies. What can I say? Hormones do crazy 

                                                                    things.

                                                                    ...... I love to read, but get waaay too caught up in 
                                                                    the books. It becomes really hard for me to put a 
                                                                    good book down and so I basically neglect all
                                                                    people and/or responsibilities around me.

                                                                    ...... I sincerely enjoy getting older. I do! I love 
                                                                    looking back on my life and seeing how I have 
                                                                    changed and grown, but I also get excited in 
                                                                    knowing that it will just continue with 
                                                                    each passing year. 

      So there you have it! I hope you learned something new about me and I look forward to reading everybody y'all's post at Brave Love

                                                                    

Fourteen: When and why?

Today's prompt: When did you start blogging and why?

WEDNESDAY, MARCH 24, 2010

A Selfless Love

As a new mom, I am learning what the term "selfless love" really means. As many current moms know, being a parent to a child is the most demanding and challenging task that one could take on. Life as you knew it is no longer a reality. Your life now consists of lack of sleep, little relaxation, and virtually NO personal time or space. This new creation needs every ounce of energy you could possibly muster and all the love that your heart can give.
Through this experience I have been given a small glimpse into the beauty of Christ's love for us. What an amazing love it is! Once my little Addi was born, I instantly knew that I would lay my own life down for her. She meant more to me than anything else that this world had to offer. Sound familiar? There is no way that I can say that I fully understand Christ's love for us, but I am blessed with a small understanding that I never knew before.

This is my diary of learning to love selflessly as well as my joys and struggles that life presents. Join me on this incredible journey called LIFE.

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         This was my first post in 2010. Crazy to think that this blog has been apart of me for four years. I can't really remember why I started blogging. Yes, I wanted to share my life and I wanted to write, but I also think that I did it because it was "cool" at the time. I don't even know the girl who wrote this post four years ago. I have changed so much since typing my first words onto this blog. As I read through old posts, it can be tempting to hit the delete button on so many of the posts that I have written. I get embarrassed at some of the things I thought were worthy of writing about, but you know what? That's who I was and that's where I was in that point of my life. If nothing else, I hope this blog is a testament of what God in and through me; a road map through each stage of this great journey. 

        This is the first time I have used this space in a good two years. I burnt myself out trying to attain some sort of blog world status. I feel like I am now in a good place to restart this blogger journey. Not for the adoration of people reading it or to gain hundreds of followers because I am over all that nonsense. Instead, I hope it will be a place to write out His story and what he is doing in my life. If nobody ever reads my words than so be it, I am good with that. BUT if somebody stumbles across these electronic pages, I hope that they find Jesus here. May this space do nothing else other than point people to my Savior. It won't be perfect. I use punctuation wrong and sometimes I write about really dumb things, but it's His blog none the less.

       Lord, this is your space. Take it and use it as you will. Amen

THIRTEEN: Relationship Status

Today's prompt: Your current relationship status. If dating/married, give us a glimpse of your story! If single, share about this special season.

      It was a busy week and I don't like busy weeks. I prefer the weeks that just roll by with our routines in place. Is that boring? It's sort of a comfort to me knowing that my evenings are just set aside for our family. We do the same things every night and I like it that way. Eat dinner, have a moment of down time, play outside, baths, books, and then bedtime. It's nice. Our nights were full this week and I felt like we were constantly being tossed from one thing to another. Today has been the first day all week where we have been allowed to resume our normal. I had missed this post yesterday, but I wanted to come back to it. When I looked ahead through all the prompts, this one got me really excited. I love to brag about this man in my life; he's amazing. He always jokes that I always talk him up so much that he'll never be able to live up to the standard I set. Not true. 

      I have known of Andy since we were little sixth graders at Sunrise Middle School. He was in the same pod but had different teachers. I remember him crossing through my math class to get to his science class. I don't know why I remember him, I certainly wasn't interested, but it must be one of those God things where he just prompts you to take notice. I can remember snippets of him through the next three years. Funny memories, like, how he wore these giant goggles over his glasses when he played basketball. My heart wasn't exactly swooning at that sight. Nope. He was pretty dorky and not even on my radar of boys that I would be interested in. Funny, because no boys were interested in me either and I am pretty sure I was just as dorky as he was, but somehow thought I was cooler. 

      Then 10th grade rolled around and suddenly I was chatting with Andy on MSN messenger. Do you guys remember that? I don't even remember one conversation on that silly thing, but apparently we talked. What is hilarious is that he was in my Spanish class, but beyond saying "hi", I am pretty sure we never said a word to each other. Yet, when Christmas rolled around, we were chatting on MSN and I got the sudden inclination to invite him to our Christmas Eve service that night. I still wasn't really interested and I don't really know what urged me to ask him (ummm... yes, i do. That was all God). He had never been to church in his life, but he came AND THEN he came over to our house afterwards and joined us for all our crazy Christmas traditions. I think one of the things that always surprised me most about myself, was that I was crazy shy especially around boys, but I never felt that way with Andy. There was nothing about him that made me nervous. He was calm and easy going and I never felt like I had to put on a show to impress him, although I probably still did. 

       From that point on, he was basically apart of the family. He started going to youth group with me and my friends and coming to church with my family. I was semi-interested in him by this point, but wasn't sold. While he was incredibly sweet and caring, I still wasn't attracted physically. So it's no surprise that when he broke his leg, playing soccer, I totally ditched him. I know.... so mature, but I did. I tried to cut off all contact with him and may have even been a little mean at times, but somehow he was always still around. My mother even kept inviting him over to our house. Yup, his mom would drive him out with that big ol' cast wrapped around his leg and he would sit in our sitting room. Oh, it made me so mad. I was, of course, forced to interact with him since there was no avoiding it.  He says he knew I didn't want him there, but it sure didn't stop him from coming out. He's funny like that.

         I kept this up all through our Junior year of high school and he did start to date another girl during that time. He still came over quite frequently and I think started to be somewhat friendly to him. He says that he still liked me through it all; I don't know why. I didn't deserve to be liked by somebody as sweet and caring as him, but that is one of his incredible qualities. Meanwhile, he had gotten all buff and muscular and updated his clothes. Once again, my maturity shines through as my interest got peaked. I noticed other girls noticing him and even my sister thought about asking him to the Sadie Hawkins dance. MY SISTER! That was the last straw! I remember walking into the school and Em mentioning that she was going to ask him. I am pretty sure I said, "Andy? No! I am going to ask him". I don't think I had any plans to ask him before that point, but that pretty much sealed the deal. 

        From that point on we were pretty much inseparable. We weren't dating, but I think it was because I had scared him a little after my whole avoidance episode. I guess I don't blame him, but I do remember being at a track meet and somebody asking my mom if one of her girls was going to marry that Andy Walters. I didn't say anything, but I remember thinking, " I am. I am going to marry Andy Walters". That's when I knew. I knew as a junior in high school that I was going to marry my high school sweetheart and he says he knew then too. The rest is history. We were dating by our senior year and got married seven years ago when we were Juniors in college. He was my first everything. The first boy I held hands with, my first date, my first boyfriend, my first kiss, my first ..... well, you get the idea.

       It's such a beautiful thing, friends. I know without a doubt that God created that man for me. He compliments me in so many ways. My greatest weakness' are his greatest strengths. He is selfless through and through; it is one of my favorite qualities about him. I fail at selflessness so so often, but he gives me such an incredible picture of what a selfless love should look like; what Jesus love for us is like. He is as loyal as they come and I know, without a doubt, that he will always be by my side and on my side. He is my playmate, my helpmate, my best friend, my joy, my hope, my heart (second to Jesus, of course). He holds himself to standards that I see even other Christian men fall short at. I am so so proud to call him mine. I truly am. The past seven years have been a true blessing. We certainly have our moments when it's not wedded bliss, but overall it has been incredibly good. I hate parting with him in the mornings and I can't wait for him to get home in the evenings. I am so thankful.

         Can I just take a minute to talk to the single ladies who may be reading this. Don't settle. Don't do it. Wait for that perfect man that God has for you. I know some of you have gone through long seasons of singleness and are so ready to be married. I get that it's hard.... I do, but trust in his plan for your life. He is supreme in wisdom and knowledge and he doesn't ask us to walk through something without a purpose. He always has a plan and we can rest in knowing that it's a good one and it is perfect. Meanwhile, draw closer to Jesus and continue to fall in love with him. It will make your marriage that much stronger because you will have built a solid foundation to lay your marriage on. Once you find that man of your dreams, wait to have sex until you are married. Trust me, it's worth it. One of the best decisions we ever made. You can message me or whatever if you want to talk about it more. 

TEN: 10 Things You Love About You

      

      Oh man, its been a long day. Really, this whole week has been a bit long and we are only half way through it. I am worn down and just want to go to sleep, but I am thankful for this space. It always feels good to write and so I write.

Today's prompt: List 10 things you love about yourself! Let's kick that negative self-talk outta here!

       This was a good one. I spend way too much time thinking about all my 

imperfections; they are always staring me in the face...... literally! God gave me so many uniquely wonderful qualities; let's focus on those for a minute.

1. my hair- It's red and I love it. It matches my feisty personality and sets me apart from the crowd. I've never disliked it, but I wasn't really all that crazy about it. I always felt like the boys didn't like me because my was red. My hair is also basically wire so any hair style I put into it will stay all. day. long. It's pretty awesome.... except when you really mess it up.
2. my creativity- I think this might be one of my most favorite things about myself. Creativity oozes out of me. I am always thinking of new projects I want to create or things I want to sew. I love that I can take decent pictures of my children; so thankful that they will be able to look back on pictures that really express who they are. God was good to me when he blessed me with the gift of creativity.
3. my eyes- I have these big blue round eyes and when I wear a blue shirt they POP. 
4. ability to bring people together- This is definitely a newer trait that I have developed. It all started after I returned from Kenya last year and became determined not to lose those new formed friendships. I am just thankful that all those wonderful new friends are willing to comply with the plans that I make. 
5. strength- I have been told that I am a very strong person. That can mean a couple different things and I probably fit into both categories. I am a very strong-willed person, no doubt, but I also have a lot of strength and courage. My strength has certainly been tested and I am sure there will be many more times where I will have to stand strong. My strength certainly comes from the Lord. Proverbs 18:10 says, "The name of the Lord is a strong tower; the righteous man runs into and is safe"
6. love for this world- I never thought this would be something that would even be apart of me. It's just a testament to how God works. I love this world and the people living in it. I wish I had the finances to go on every single mission trip that is offered at my church. It's so easy to be scared of things we don't understand. I want to understand and know people and cultures. Praying that will be apart of my future.
7. tenacity- when it's time to get something done, I am all over it. I have a drive inside of me and once I get focused on something, there is no turning back.
8. deep thinker- I've learned over the past couple years that I am a deep thinker and a processor. I need to work through thoughts, questions, and experiences. You want a really dumb answer from me? Ask me a deep question and expect an answer in seconds. I need to really dig through the good and the bad things in this life. I think it's a great quality. When you allow me the time to process through my thoughts, I can usually give you something worth while.
9. loyalty- You become my friend and I'll never leave your side. We might not see each other or talk very often, but I will always be there for you.
10. Who I am in Christ- Oh man.... he has done a work in me. He has changed me, grown me, and stretched me. I see myself becoming more Christ-like and I am so so thankful for that. I have so so far to go, but he is constantly pulling me in and teaching me his ways. I love him. I do. I love him so much and I love who I am in him. He allows me to stumble and fall, mess it all up; then pulls me and forgives me and shows me grace. It's a beautiful thing.  

NINE: Personality Types

Today's prompt: Let's talk personality types. Introverted? Extroverted? Unsure-troverted? If you know you Myers-Briggs type, share it! If not you can take this similar test and share your results.

     Interesting that this topic falls on a Tuesday because I feel my introvertedness pretty hard on these days. On Tuesdays and Thursdays, I work at our church for Mother's Day Out and I come home absolutely whooped. It takes me a good hour, alone in my room, before I feel half way recharged. I basically turn on the TV the second we walk in the door and beg my children to give me some time. 

       Introverted it is! I loooove solace and alone time! I certainly don't get it very often, now that I have two kids, but I crave it and cherish the moments I do get alone. I used to be crazy introverted! Like, it was really hard for me to have any type of conversation with anybody I didn't know and if you were a boy..... forget about it! It has taken years and years of forcing myself to talk to people to get where I am today. Moving to Houston was so good for me because if I was going to make friends, I was going to have to open my mouth and make conversation. 

        I am also a reflector and deep thinker. I like to savor and chew on thoughts and experiences. I am still processing through my Kenya trip that was two months ago. While many people just speak their thoughts, I like to hold onto mine. Well, that's not totally true; sometimes my mouth can run a little too free. My Mom could probably attest to both, I suppose.  I got in trouble a lot for arguing and being sassy, but I also remember her saying, "Elizabeth, I can see your thoughts running through your head". I'm learning the balance.

Anyway, here is my results from the test I took:

      I feel like it sums me up pretty well! I have certainly had people think that I was arrogant and unfriendly because of my personality. I remember this girl in college being shocked at how friendly I actually was, once she got to know me. Apparently, I never said "hi" to her whole she was in my class. Truth be told, I didn't know she was even in my class and besides, she never made any attempt to greet me (why am I the bad guy?) 

       Here is the truth: I don't want or need a ton of friends and the ones who make it through are usually very genuine, down to earth people. I love authenticity.   However, just because I am introverted does not mean that I always want to be a homebody. I sincerely enjoy getting together with people that I love. Friendship is such a God given gift! I need friendship. 

     I've made this revelation that some people are, what I like to call "friend collectors". You merely give them a half smile and your their new friend. You both like pink and BOOM you are best friend. Jog on the same street? BOOM! You like her shirt? BOOM! Your kid wiped a booger on her kid? Boom! Now hear me, I am not bashing it. Infact, I wish I could be more like that, but intimacy is HUGE to me. I want to talk about real life issues and struggles, about passions and desires, hopes and fears. If we can't take off our masks and be real, then it's probably not going to work out. It's truly beautiful when you find those type of friends. Trust me. 

         Alright, I think that's enough about my introvertedness. I have had my hour alone in my room and now it's time to join the real world.